Very often when we share things with you, it is because we have experienced this ourselves. We have had som very bad hits ourselves, and this brings us to today's topic in this blog, namely: Goals and goal achieving.

It sounds so good and simple, right?

You set a goal and you initiate what you think is needed to get there.

But no way! It is NOT that simple!

Let's talk a little about spark, joy and motivation!

Spark and joy is something you get when you really put yourself first!

Aristotle said that pleasure is so important that it surpasses all other worldly considerations.

All research shows that joy and humor are extremely important for people's physical and mental health.

Our mind works on two levels.

Today, we know.....

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Before you can know in which direction you should go, you must know what your starting point is.

We cannot walk exactly the same way, we do not have the same journey in our life.

Selvutvikling er virkelig den beste gaven du kan gi deg selv, dem du er glad i og alle rundt deg.

Ved å utvikle deg og bli en autentisk versjon av deg selv, vil du kunne gi så mye mer. Du blir mer til stede i ditt eget og andres liv.

Dagens samfunn er overfladisk, vi haster gjennom dagene våre uten å tenke, og vi er generelt lite reflekterte.

Can you feel it? The tides of the workplace norm are quickly shifting. Which side are you on? Are you stuck in the past where traditional plug-and-play marketing methods are fading away as the revenue runs dry? Or are you sinking into your more empathetic side to support a lean team through every ebb and flow of the business world?

Melodramatic maybe, but true nonetheless. Without a doubt, the business market evolved, and the typical consumer avatar shifted in the past few years. No industry was safe from this drastic change.

Noen ganger når utrolige ting skjer med folk, sier vi at de er heldige...

Som når noen er på rett sted til rett tid for å ta et viktig skritt i livet.

Eller når en selger gjør et stort salg og tjener 100 000 kroner i provisjon…………….

Frykt kan være så mange forskjellige ting, men det de alle har til felles;

vi blir overveldet av forskjellige følelser. Følelsesmessige tilstander som oppstår når vi utsettes for en reell eller fiktiv fare.

Frykt kan være den aller beste reaksjonen du kan ha i en farlig situasjon, det er hjernens overlevelsesmekanisme og den har vært lokalisert i fryktsenteret, Amygdala , i hjernen så lenge vi mennesker har eksistert. Vi skal være glade for å ha sunne fryktreaksjoner som varsler en farlig situasjon …….

Få vi virkelig det vi gir.

Dette universet gir oss bare det vi tror at vi fortjener å motta.

Dette kan virke sant……………

Det dreier seg om viktige temaer i samfunnet vårt i disse dager

- Unge og voksne som er ofre for prestasjonssamfunnet.

- Avhengighet

- Vold og voldtekter

- Økt selvmordsstatistikk

- Psykisk helse

- Hvordan menn må vise mer følelser

- Kvinner som er superpresterende

- Likestilling, stolthet

- Aldersdiskriminering, det økende antallet eldre…………………

"KUN EN DEL AV VEIEN TIL MÅLET VÅRT ER EN BEVISST HANDLING, OG DERETTER MÅ VI KASTE OSS UT I MØRKET MOT VÅR SUKSESS."

- Henry David Thoreau -

Vi er enige med Thoreau.

Men hvis du ønsker å lykkes, er det noe du må huske på ...

PEOPLE DON'T NEED TO BE SAVED. WE ONLY NEED KNOWLEDGE OF OUR OWN STRENGTH AND HOW TO FIND IT.

WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO ADD TO YOUR LIFE'S MEMOIRS?

I have probably always been the positive type, nothing rarely stopped me. I probably let Pippi Longstocking's famous words: "I've never done this before, I'm sure I can" influence me early in life.

I BELIEVE THERE ARE THREE MAJOR OBSTACLES THAT WE FACE WHEN WE WANT TO ACHIEVE SOMETHING, EITHER PRIVATELY OR PROFESIONALLY.

Begin living the life you want. There is a science of control and communication locked up inside you, it is your self-image. It is the image you hold of yourself. It controls how you walk, how you talk, how you meet and great other people and the world. Build a better image, see yourself as everything that you are supposed to be.

Most of the huge corporations and companies do not know what their top producers really do, and most of the top producers don´t know what they are doing themselves. They are what one can call unconscious competents.

If corporations and leaders knew what the real hard-chargers were doing, they would can it and give it to everybody.

I want you to imagine that sometime in the future, we bump into each other.

You take hold of my arm to get my attention and say:

Holy shit, Merete, you were certainly not kidding me! What you took me through, made such a huge impact on me, I started to look at my life from a different perspective, I became more aware of my thoughts, things started to happen, and my life transformed completely, here is what happened: