How to bring about change?
How much can we influence change?
Can we always influence change?
Change occurs in two different ways, change of one's own desire
or it comes as an unexpected shocking event.
“Change is inevitable, personal development is a choice”
Yes, change in life is inevitable, it happens all the time in one way or another!
Change at will?
If we are not satisfied with something, and we would like something else.
We choose to make a change ourselves.
This is often a pleasurable process. Because we either feel so bad that we think:
I will do everything to not feel like this anymore.
Or maybe you have a dream about something?
This is clearly a process of change that we can influence, if we really want to.
The change comes completely unexpected!
A change that comes as a shock in the form of an experience that comes upon you completely unexpectedly.
This often hurts so much, because you are not prepared at all.
You live your life one day, the next moment everything has changed.
Life has been completely turned upside down!
I belive that even completely unexpected changes in life, can we be influenced, and give great opportunities.
We can turn this from a shock into a desired change, if we really want to.
Everything starts with a thought!
And it may not be just one thought that knocks you down.
It's all the negative bad thoughts such as fear, worry, discouragement, confusion.....and more
There are also positive thoughts about how nice it can be.
When you recognise a dream, don't let it go. No matter how bad you feel, or how little faith you have, it is possible!
“Everything is possible, the impossible just takes a little longer”
What does it cost me?
From when I was little, my father told me; You can do what you want my girl.
And that has definitely affected my attitude, a lot. But as I have lived my life, and received one blow after another,
I have added
if I want it enough!
Because EVERYTHING costs - including changes.
I'm not saying that change is always that easy, because I know all about that.
And I'm not just talking about money, but effort, courage, will, sweat and tears.
I go on with good courage. I have a positive attitude, but if it costs me more than it tastes, I stop.
I'm not giving up, but I'm choosing a different path. Don't give up - just stop for a while........ do you need help?
Remember, what is good and long-awaited will cost in one way or another, it is only you who should set your limits.
If you have an open mind, then maybe you just need a little help to get ahead. Because you have access to infinite resources, you have to see beyond what you see.
If you would like a (completely non-binding) chat about this, I look forward to hearing from you!
I myself have been through major life changes - serious injuries turned my life upside down.
Remember that your desire for change is your desire, which no one has the right to value for you, or take away from you.
“You can do what you want, if you want it enough”